Monday, 29 July 2013

Why we wear hijab?

Assalamualaikum.

Note that this goes to all girls, hijabbed, or not. To all boys, believers or not. We are all brothers and sisters, semua orang pun nak buat benda baik. Kepada kawan-kawan yang ada terasa nak pakai tudung, tahniah dan Alhamdulillah. Allah dah jentik kesedaran dalam hati. Yang x berhijab pun, tahniah sebab anda cari peluang untuk buat kebaikan. Itu pun namanya Allah dah jentik kesedaran dalam hati.


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Haaa. ni nama dia gosip halal untuk buat pengajaran.
Ada sorang laki ni, nama dia Sheikh. I pun x kenal, he is a friend of my friend and she told me that he tweeted something that sounds a lot like this:


"Kenapa perempuan pakai tudung? Sebab rambut dia kusut, kalau lambut lurus mesti free hair"
Lalu aku pun.. apakah?! My friend told him that that is NOT the truth. Then he replied "Realiti kot"
Okay, benda ni ada dua perspective. Jom kita analyze satu-satu.

1) Okay ni pandangan yang reflect kat kita. Hmm... if that is how he sees it then maybe it's true. Now let's not look at him girls and look at ourselves. Mungkin kita bertudung tapi tak membawa image yang betul sebagai seorang yang cuba untuk berhijab. Aku pun, x perfect, maaflah ayat cliche. Takde orang perfect because our life is a journey for us to perfect it, the only way we'll know if our life is perfect is after hisab. So why exactly do we bother wearing hijab and covering our aurah? The reason is because Allah tells us to so. In Islam, women are not oppressed instead respected because a woman is full of love and strength. Islam believes that we should be respected because of what we can do and not our physical. One of my friend told me about a Korean artiste from MBLAQ said that he doesn't think the girls who show their tummy and wear sexy clothes are beautiful. It is humiliating according to him. And somebody commented 'Finally someone realize about this issue'. Even the related religion, Christianity, teaches its believers to be modest. What more to argue? 

2) Ni reflect kat dia & kita skali. Mungkin pandangan dia hanya mampu berlegar legar di surface sahaja. There is no critical thinking involved where there are factors of religion, fashion and culture. Maaflah saudara, saya nak cuba bagi pengajaran kepada my fellow brothers and sisters tentang judging.
We cannot run away from judging people, it's natural. But keep it to yourself first, get to know the person first then you can decide whether you wanna stay friends or just be acquaintances. Every religion teaches us to be kind to other people. For example, if you see a person wearing hijab, doesn't guarantee she's going to heaven. If you see a person not wearing hijab, doesn't mean she is condemned to hell. Allah is Loving and Forgiving. He loves us and He will forgive us, with one condition. Ask from him with sincerity. I myself is still trying to refrain myself from judging extremely and be nice to everyone. Alhamdulillah, I've started to appreciate everyone around me more now. And i've reduced my gossiping habit so, in shaa Allah, the path to change is wide open. 

Maaf la saudara, if you have nothing to say, say nothing (Mark Twain). Harap-harap Allah bagi dia hidayah la. Rasa geram je nak sembur ckp 'May God damn you to hell' tapi tak boleh, doa tu senjata kita so kena doa benda yang baik-baik. Mana tahu dia tu jodoh sesape ke kan, kesian perempuan tu nanti. 

Have a nice day brothers and sisters.

2 comments:

  1. omg he really said that? bukan nak ckpla but my rambut is very lawa kay, lurus, gune jari pown boley, (puji diri sendiri). my point is bkn sbb rmbut you buruk then you have to tutup. I pena witness someone rambut dy busuk, berbuah, berkelemumur and bla3 , frehair, perempuan. so? berhijab or not itu ats individu, individu yg dah berhijab, congrates sbb dah mematuhi salah satu kewajiban dlm Islam. nice post darlim.

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    1. haha aku tahu rambut kau. cantikkk.... jangan bagitau sesape pasal rambut 80's aku haha.

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